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I’ve known a few people whose relationships that started before or during a divorce succeeded.
But, in my opinion and experience, this is pretty rare.
It’s a good time to practice talking to the opposite sex again and getting comfortable meeting new people, especially if it’s been decades since they dated before their marriage.
But it’s not a good idea to go out to find someone to try to help them forget their spouse.
I learned the hard way that it’s not wise to date if you’ve only been separated a short time.
I now counsel my clients in this situation who are thinking of dating to consider only going out to hobby and singles events to have fun, to look for dates.
And they also are cautious because they don’t want to get emotionally involved with someone who still has a partner in the background or his or her life or who might not be over that person.
So, overall, people going through divorce usually have a harder time finding people open to dating them.
I think this is because they often don’t realize or understand how important it is to heal from the last relationship before getting into a new one.
In my 18 years in my divorce mediation practice I have gained insight into how dating during our divorce mediation program changes the dynamics for the worse.